Ko te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe he take pāpori e rua kua nui ake te arohia i ngā tau tata nei. Ahakoa kua roa e mōhiotia ana ēnei hei momo tukino, tae noa ki te mutunga o te rautau 20 ka mōhiotia te hononga i waenganui i ngā mea e rua. I ngā tau tata nei, kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau he hononga kaha i waenganui i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe, me ngā rangahau e kī ana 71% o ngā tāngata i pāngia e te tutu ā-whare kua kōrero anō hoki kua whara hoki tā rātou kaipahua i ā rātou mōkai. E whakaatu ana tēnei tatauranga whakamataku i te hiahia kia mārama ake ki te whanaungatanga i waenganui i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe. Ka rukuhia e tēnei tuhinga te hononga uaua i waenganui i ēnei momo tukino e rua, ā, ka tūhuratia ngā āhuatanga maha e whai wāhi ana ki tēnei. Ka tirohia anō hoki e mātou te pānga o te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe ki ngā tāngata i pāngia me te hapori whānui. Mā roto i tēnei kōrero, e tumanakohia ana mā te mārama ake ki tēnei take ka arahi ki ngā rautaki ārai me te wawaotanga whai hua ake, ā, ka waihanga i tētahi hapori haumaru ake, aroha ake hoki mō te tangata me te kararehe.
Ka pā te tutu ā-whare ki ngā kararehe
Kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau he pānga nui te tutu ā-whare ki ngā kararehe, ā, he maha ngā wā ka noho hei patunga kore whakaaro o te tukino. I roto i ngā whare e tūkinotia ana te tangata, ehara i te mea onge ka pāngia hoki ngā mōkai e te tukino, te whara rānei. Ka tūkinotia pea ngā kararehe, ka warewaretia, ka whakamahia rānei hei huarahi whakahaere i ngā patunga. Ko te noho o ngā mōkai i roto i te taiao tukino ka uaua ake ngā take mō ngā morehu, nā te mea ka mangere pea rātou ki te waiho i te kaitūkino i te wehi mō te haumaru o ō rātou hoa aroha. Hei tāpiri, ko te kitenga i te tukinotanga o tētahi mōkai ka pāngia pea e te mamae me te pouri mō ngā tāngata e pāngia ana e te tutu ā-whare. He mea nui kia mōhio ki te hononga o te tukino kararehe me te tutu ā-whare, nā te mea he mea tika te aro atu ki ngā matea me te haumaru o te tangata me ngā kararehe hei tautoko whānui me te wawaotanga i roto i ēnei āhuatanga.
He maha ngā wā ka taupatupatu te tukino kararehe ki te mate kore mahi (DV)
He maha ngā wā ka honoa ngā mahi tukino kararehe ki ngā mahi tutu ā-whare, e whakaatu ana i te hononga whakamataku i waenganui i ngā mea e rua. Tērā pea ka whakawhānuihia e ngā kaimahi tutu ā-whare ā rātou whanonga tukino ki ngā kararehe, ka whakamahia hei huarahi ki te whakamahi i te mana me te whakahaere i ā rātou patunga. Ka puta pea tēnei momo tukino hei whara tinana, hei kore aro, hei whakawehi rānei ki te whara i ngā mōkai. Mā te whakaurunga o ngā kararehe ki roto i te taiao tukino ka uaua ake te āhuatanga mō ngā morehu, nā te mea ka mangere pea rātou ki te wehe atu i ō rātou kaitukino nā te mea kei te āwangawanga rātou mō te haumaru me te oranga o ā rātou hoa kararehe e arohaina ana. Mā te mātakitaki i te tukinotanga o ngā kararehe ka taea hoki te whakararu i ngā tāngata e pāngia ana e te tutu ā-whare, ka mau tonu te huringa o te wehi me te mamae. He mea nui te mōhio me te aro ki te hononga i waenganui i te tukino kararehe me te tutu ā-whare ki te whakarato tautoko whānui me te wawaotanga mō ngā patunga tangata me ngā kararehe.
Ka taea hoki e ngā kaipahua te whara i ngā kararehe
He mea nui kia mōhiotia, i roto i te horopaki o te tutu ā-whare, kāore pea ngā kaiwhakatoi e whakawhāiti i ā rātou whanonga tukino ki ngā tāngata anake; ka taea hoki e rātou te whai me te whara i ngā mōkai. E whakaatu ana tēnei āhuatanga pouri i te nui o te whakamahinga a ngā kaiwhakatoi i ngā kararehe hei huarahi whakahaere me te whakamataku i ā rātou patunga. Ka taea e te whara ā-whakaaro i pā ki ngā mōkai te puta mai i ngā momo āhua, tae atu ki te tukino tinana, te kore aro, te whakawehi rānei i te tutu. Ko te noho o te tukino kararehe i roto i ngā āhuatanga o te tutu ā-whare ka tāpiri atu i tētahi atu paparanga uaua mō ngā morehu e mangere ana ki te wehe atu i te āhuatanga tukino nā te mea e āwangawanga ana mō te haumaru me te oranga o ā rātou mōkai e arohaina ana. Ko te mōhio me te mārama ki tēnei hononga i waenga i te tukino mōkai me te tutu ā-whare he mea nui ki te whakawhanake i ngā rautaki whānui hei aro ki ngā hiahia o ngā tāngata me ngā kararehe i pāngia, me te whakatairanga i tētahi hapori haumaru ake, aroha ake hoki mō te katoa.
Ka whakamarie ngā kararehe i ngā patunga
Kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau ka taea e ngā kararehe te whakarato i te whakamarie me te tautoko kare ā-roto e hiahiatia ana ki ngā tāngata i pāngia e te tutu ā-whare. Mā te noho mai o tētahi mōkai e arohaina ana ka taea te tuku i te wairua o te hoa, te aroha mutunga kore, me te whakamarie i ngā wā o te pouri. He kaha ahurei tō ngā kararehe ki te whakarato i tētahi wāhi haumaru, kore whakahāwea hoki mō ngā morehu, kia taea ai e rātou te wheako i ngā kare ā-roto o te whakamarie me te haumaru. Mā te mahi ngāwari o te mirimiri, te awhi rānei i tētahi kararehe ka taea te āwhina i te whakaiti i te ahotea, te manukanuka, me ngā kare ā-roto o te mokemoke, ka whakarato i tētahi putanga rongoā mō te hunga kua pāngia e te whara. He mea nui te mōhio ki te mana whakaora o ngā kararehe i roto i te oranga o ngā morehu ki te whakawhanake i ngā pūnaha tautoko whānui e aro ana ki te oranga kare ā-roto o ngā tāngata me ngā kararehe i pāngia e te tutu ā-whare.
Ka taea te whakamahi i ngā mōkai hei mea āwhina
He mea nui kia mōhiotia ka taea te whakamahi i ngā mōkai hei āwhina i roto i ngā take tutu ā-whare. Ka whakamahia pea e ngā kaihara te hononga kare ā-roto o ngā tāngata i pāngia ki ā rātou mōkai, hei huarahi whakahaere me te raweke. Ko te whakawehi i te whara o tētahi mōkai e arohaina ana he huarahi whai hua hei whakamahi i te mana me te pupuri i te mana whakahaere i ngā morehu. Ehara i te mea ka puta he wehi nui me te mamae ki te tangata i pāngia, engari he tūponotanga nui hoki ki te oranga o ngā kararehe e whai wāhi ana. He mea nui te mārama ki tēnei āhuatanga i roto i te hoahoa i ngā wawaotanga me ngā pūnaha tautoko e whai whakaaro ana ki te haumaru me te oranga o ngā tāngata me ngā kararehe i pāngia e te tutu ā-whare. Mā te aro atu ki te take o te whakamahinga o ngā mōkai hei āwhina, ka taea e tātou te mahi ki te waihanga i tētahi urupare whānui me te whai hua ki te tutu ā-whare e whai whakaaro ana ki ngā matea me ngā ngoikoretanga o te hunga katoa e pāngia ana.
Ka taea te whakamahi i ngā mōkai hei tūmomo whakawehi
He mea whakapouri ngā tauira o te whakamahinga o ngā mōkai hei whakawehi i roto i ngā take tutu ā-whare. E mōhio ana ngā kaipahua ki te hononga hohonu o te kare ā-roto i waenga i ngā patunga me ā rātou kararehe e arohaina ana, ā, ka ārahi i a rātou ki te whakamahi i tēnei hononga hei huarahi akiaki me te whakahaere. Mā te whakawehi i te whara i tētahi mōkai, ka whakahaerea e ngā kaipahua, ka whakatō hoki i te wehi ki roto i ā rātou patunga, ka mau tonu te huringa o te tukino. Ko ngā pānga o ēnei rautaki ka horapa atu i tua atu i te pānga tonu ki te patunga tangata; kei te mōrearea hoki te oranga me te haumaru o te kararehe e whai wāhi ana. Ko te mōhio ki te whakamahinga o ngā mōkai hei patu i roto i te tutu ā-whare he taahiraa nui ki te whakawhanake i ngā rautaki whānui me ngā pūnaha tautoko e aro ana ki ngā hiahia o ngā patunga tangata me ngā kararehe. Mā te mahi ki te aukati me te wawao i roto i ēnei āhuatanga, ka taea e tātou te waihanga i ngā taiao haumaru ake mō te hunga katoa e pāngia ana e te tutu ā-whare.
Ka taea e te tukino te horapa ki ngā kararehe
He maha ngā wā ka horapa atu ngā tūkino ā-whare ki tua atu i ngā tāngata i pāngia, ā, ka uru atu hoki ngā kararehe ki roto i te whare. He mea pouri te kite i te kaha o te tūkino ki ngā kararehe, me te whakamahi a ngā kaihara i a rātou hei whāinga tāpiri mō tā rātou riri me te whakahaere. Ehara i te mea ka mamae nui ngā kararehe i roto i tēnei momo tūkino, engari ka whakanui ake hoki i te pānga whānui o te tūkino ā-whare ki te whānau katoa. He mea nui te mārama me te aro ki te hononga i waenga i te tūkino ā-whare me te tūkino kararehe kia taea ai te whakarato tautoko whānui me te tiaki i ngā tāngata katoa i pāngia, ahakoa te tangata, te kararehe rānei. Mā te mōhio me te wawao i roto i ēnei take, ka taea e tātou te mahi ki te wawahi i te huringa o te tūkino me te waihanga i ngā taiao haumaru ake mō te katoa.
He hara te tukino i ngā kararehe
He takahi nui te tukino kararehe i ngā paerewa matatika me ngā paerewa ture, he hara e hiahia ana kia arohia wawetia, kia mahihia hoki. He tino raruraru te āhua o te tukino me te kore aro o ngā kararehe e te hunga e kore e aro ki ō rātou oranga. Ehara i te mea ka puta he whara nui ki te tinana me te hinengaro o ngā kararehe e pā ana ki ēnei mahi, engari e whakaatu ana hoki i te kore aro ki te uara me te mana o ngā mea ora katoa. He kawenga matatika tā te hapori ki te whakahē me te aro ki te tukino kararehe, me te whakarite kia whai kawenga te hunga e whai kawenga ana mō ēnei mahi mō ā rātou mahi. Mā te whakaae ki te tukino kararehe hei hara, ka taea e tātou te mahi ki te whakatipu i tētahi hapori aroha me te tika e tiaki ana i ngā tika me te oranga o ngā mea ora katoa.
Kāore pea ngā tāngata i pāngia e te mate nā te mea kei a rātou ngā mōkai
Ka pā nui te noho mai o ngā mōkai i roto i ngā whare e pāngia ana e te tutu ā-whare ki te kaha o te tangata i pāngia ki te wehe atu i tētahi āhuatanga tukino. He maha ngā wā ka noho ngā mōkai hei puna tautoko kare ā-roto, hei whakarato hoa, hei whakamarie, hei wairua haumaru hoki ki ō rātou rangatira. Engari, ka whakamahia pea e ngā kaitukino tēnei hononga hei huarahi whakahaere me te raweke, mā te whakamahi i te riri, te whara rānei ki ngā mōkai hei huarahi ki te whakamahi i te mana ki runga i ā rātou patunga. I ēnei wā, ka rongo pea ngā patunga i te mauhere, te kore e pai ki te waiho i ā rātou mōkai, te mataku rānei ki ngā mea ka pā ki a rātou mēnā ka pērā rātou. Ko tēnei hononga uaua i waenga i te tutu ā-whare me te noho mai o ngā mōkai e whakaatu ana i te hiahia mō ngā ratonga tautoko whānui e aro ana ki ngā wero ahurei e pā ana ki ngā patunga kāore e pai, e kore rānei e taea te wehe atu nā ā rātou mōkai. Mā te mōhio ki te hiranga o tēnei take me te whakatinana i ngā mahi hei tiaki i ngā patunga tangata me ngā kararehe, ka taea e tātou te mahi ki te wawahi i te huringa o te tutu me te whakarato i tētahi taiao haumaru mō te katoa.
Ka taea e te mōhiotanga te āwhina i te wawahi i te huringa
Ko te mōhio ki te whanaungatanga i waenga i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe he taahiraa nui ki te wawahi i te huringa o te tutu. Mā te mārama ki te hononga o ēnei momo tukino e rua, ka taea e te hapori te tautuhi me te aro atu ki ngā take matua e whai wāhi ana ki ēnei whanonga kino. Mā te whakanui ake i te mōhiotanga ka arahi ki ngā mahi ārai pai ake, te wawaotanga wawe, me te tautoko i ngā patunga. Ka taea hoki e ia te āwhina i ngā tohunga i roto i ngā momo mara, pērā i te pirihimana me ngā ratonga hapori, kia kite i ngā tohu o te tukino me te mahi i ngā mahi tika hei whakarite i te haumaru o ngā patunga tangata me ngā kararehe. Mā te whakatairanga i te mōhiotanga me te mātauranga, ka taea e tātou te poipoi i tētahi hapori kua rite ake ki te wawahi i te huringa o te tutu me te whakarato tautoko mō te hunga e pāngia ana e te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe.
Hei whakamutunga, e mārama ana he hononga kaha kei waenganui i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe. I a tātou e haere tonu ana ki te whakaara ake i te mōhiotanga me te whakaako i ētahi atu mō tēnei take, me mahi anō hoki tātou ki te whakatinana i ngā ture pakari ake me te whakanui ake i ngā rauemi mō ngā tāngata i tukinotia me ō rātou hoa huruhuru. He mea nui kia mōhio tātou me te aro atu ki te hononga i waenganui i ēnei momo tukino e rua kia waihangahia ai he hapori haumaru ake, he hapori aroha ake hoki mō ngā mea ora katoa. Kia haere tonu tātou ki te tautoko i te tiakitanga o ngā tāngata me ngā kararehe i tukinotia.
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He aha te hononga i waenga i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe?
E whakaatu ana ngā rangahau i te hononga kaha i waenga i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe. He maha ngā rangahau kua kitea ko te hunga e uru ana ki te tutu ā-whare he nui ake te tūponotanga ki te whara i ngā kararehe. E kitea ana tēnei hononga hei toronga o te mana me te whakahaere, me te whakamahi a ngā kaitukino i ngā kararehe hei huarahi ki te whakahaere me te whakamataku i ā rātou patunga. Hei tāpiri, ko te mātakitaki i te tukino kararehe ka taea te whakapouri i ngā tamariki i roto i ngā whare tukino. He mea nui te mōhio me te aro atu ki tēnei hononga hei whakarato tautoko me te tiaki whai hua mō ngā tāngata me ngā kararehe i tukinotia.
He aha te pānga o te mātakitaki i te tukino kararehe i te tamarikitanga ki te tūponotanga o te uru atu ki te tutu ā-whare i te wā e pakeke ana?
Kua honoa te kitenga i te tukino kararehe i te tamarikitanga ki te pikinga ake o te tūponotanga o te whai wāhi ki te tutu ā-whare i te pakeketanga. Tērā pea nā te noho noa o te tutu, te kore aro ki te mamae, me te whanaketanga o ngā tauira whanonga pukuriri i ngā tau whanaketanga tēnei hononga. Hei tāpiri, ko te kitenga i te tukino kararehe he tohu i te kore aroha me te whakaute ki ngā mea ora, ka taea te huri hei whanonga tutu ki te tangata i ngā tau o muri mai. He mea nui kia aro atu me te aukati i te tukino kararehe kia pakaru ai tēnei huringa me te whakatairanga i tētahi hapori aroha me te kore tutu.
He aha ētahi tohu whakatūpato e whakaatu ana i te hononga i waenga i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe?
Ko ētahi tohu whakatūpato e whakaatu ana i te hononga i waenga i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe ko ngā whara maha, ngā mate kāore i te whakamāramatia i roto i ngā mōkai, te tauira o te tutu, te nanakia rānei ki ngā kararehe e te mema o te whānau, ngā whakawehi, ngā mahi tutu rānei ki ngā kararehe hei huarahi whakahaere, hei whakamataku rānei, me te taumata teitei o te ahotea, te taumahatanga rānei i roto i te whare. Hei tāpiri, e kī ana ngā rangahau he maha ngā wā ka puta te tukino kararehe me ētahi atu momo tutu ā-whānau, pērā i te tukino tamariki, te tutu hoa piripono rānei. He mea nui kia mōhio ki ēnei tohu whakatūpato, kia mahi tika ai hei whakarite i te haumaru me te oranga o te tangata me ngā kararehe i roto i ēnei āhuatanga.
Me pēhea te whakamahi i te aroaro o te tukino kararehe hei tohu mō te tautuhi me te wawao i ngā take tutu ā-whare?
Ka taea te whakamahi i te tūkino kararehe hei tohu mō te tautuhi me te wawao i ngā take tutu ā-whare nā te mea kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau he hononga kaha i waenga i te tukino kararehe me te tutu ā-iwi. He maha ngā wā ka tukino ngā kaimahi tutu ā-whare i ngā kararehe hei huarahi ki te whakamahi i te mana me te whakahaere i ā rātou patunga. Mā te mohio me te aro atu ki te tukino kararehe ka āwhina i ngā tohunga ngaio, pērā i ngā kaimahi hapori me ngā pirihimana, ki te tautuhi i ngā take tūkino ā-whare pea, me te wawao ki te tiaki i ngā patunga tangata me ngā kararehe. Ka taea e te tukino kararehe te noho hei haki whero e akiaki ana i ētahi atu rangahau me te wawaotanga kia mau ai te haumaru me te oranga o ngā tāngata katoa e whai wāhi ana.
He aha ētahi rautaki whai hua hei whakatau i te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe i te wā kotahi hei wawahi i te huringa o te tutu?
Ko ētahi rautaki whai hua hei aro atu ki te tutu ā-whare me te tukino kararehe i te wā kotahi hei wawahi i te huringa o te tutu ko te whakatinana i ngā tikanga whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i waenga i ngā whakahaere tiaki kararehe me te tutu ā-whare, te whakarato mātauranga me te whakangungu mō te hononga i waenga i te tukino kararehe me te tutu ā-whare mō ngā tohunga ngaio i ngā mara e rua, te tuku ratonga tautoko mō ngā tāngata me ngā kararehe i pāngia, me te whakatairanga i te mōhiotanga me te whai wāhi a te hapori mā roto i ngā kaupapa me ngā kaupapa. Hei tāpiri, he mea nui te tautoko i te ture me te whakamana kaha ake hei tiaki i ngā tāngata me ngā kararehe i pāngia, hei aro atu me te aukati i ēnei momo tukino.