Ko te kitenga atu i ngā kararehe ngaro e kopikopiko ana i ngā tiriti, e noho pōuri ana rānei i roto i ngā whare tiaki kararehe, he whakamaumaharatanga mamae tēnei mō te raruraru e tipu haere ana: te kore kāinga i waenga i ngā kararehe. E miriona ngā ngeru, ngā kurī, me ētahi atu kararehe puta noa i te ao e noho kore kāinga tuturu ana, e noho ngoikore ana ki te hiakai, ki te mate, me te tukino. Mā te mārama ki ngā pūtake o tēnei raruraru me te mahi i ngā mahi hei whakatika, ka nui te rerekētanga.
Mō ia kurī, ngeru rānei e waimarie ana ki te mahana o te kāinga whakamarie me te aroha mutunga kore o te kaitiaki tangata pono, he tini ke atu anō kei roto i ō rātou oranga te uaua, te kore aro, me te mamae. E pāngia ana ēnei kararehe e ngā wero e kore e taea te whakaaro, e uaua ana ki te ora i runga i ngā tiriti, e manawanui ana rānei ki te tukino a te hunga koretake, rawakore, taumaha, mangere, tukino rānei. He tokomaha e noho puku ana i roto i ngā whare tiaki kararehe kī tonu i te tangata, me te tumanako ka kitea e rātou he kāinga aroha.
Ko ngā kurī, e whakanuia ana ko te "hoa pai o te tangata," he maha tonu ngā wā ka pāngia e te mamae. He tokomaha e herea ana ki ngā mekameka taumaha, e whakataua ana kia noho ki waho i te wera nui, i te makariri nui, me te ua nui. Ki te kore he tiaki tika, he hoa rānei, ka mamae rātou i te tinana me te hinengaro, ka tangohia te herekoretanga me te aroha e hiahiatia ana e rātou. Ko ētahi kurī ka tūtaki ki ngā aituā kino rawa atu i roto i ngā mowhiti whawhai kurī nanakia, ka akiakihia rātou ki te whawhai mō te oranga, ka pāngia e ngā whara whakamataku, ā, he maha ngā wā ka mate i te mutunga o ēnei mahi nanakia.
I taua wā, kei te aro atu ngā ngeru ki ā rātou ake wero whakapouri. Ko te hunga e waiho ana kia kopikopiko noa iho me te kore e tirotirohia, e panaia rānei i ngā whare tiaki "kore-patu" ka tūpono ki te mahi nanakia e kore e taea te whakaaro. Kua paitinihia ngā ngeru o waho, kua pūhia, kua tahuna, kua mauheretia, kua toremitia rānei e ngā tāngata kino e kite ana i a rātou he mea whakararuraru, ehara i te mea ora. Ko ngā ngeru mohoao, i a rātou e rapu ana i te mahana i ngā rā makariri o te hotoke, ka ngokingoki i raro i ngā taupoki motuka, i roto rānei i ngā wāhi miihini, ka whara kino, ka mate rānei i ngā mata o te hau. Ahakoa ngā ngeru kāinga, kāore i te tiakina i te mamae; ko ngā pokanga tango ture mamae me te mamae - kua aukatia i te nuinga o te ao - ka tangohia ō rātou parepare taiao, ka waiho rātou kia ngoikore ki te whara me te mamae mau tonu.
Ko ngā manu, e whakanuia ana mō ō rātou ataahua me te waiata, e manawanui ana ki te momo herehere. Ina mauheretia ki roto i ngā whare herehere, he tokomaha ka pōrearea i te ahotea tonu o te hereheretanga, ka memeha haere tō rātou wairua oraora i te kore herekoretanga. Waihoki, ko ngā ika me ētahi atu kararehe iti, e hokohokohia ana hei "mōkai tīmatanga," ka warewarehia e te hunga whai whakaaro pai kāore i te mōhio, kāore hoki i te rauemi hei tiaki tika i a rātou. Ahakoa te iti o ēnei kararehe, ka mamae noa iho rātou, ka warewarehia ō rātou hiahia me te oranga.
Kāore te aituā e mutu i reira. Ko ngā kaipupuhi taonga, nā te akiaki, nā te whakaaro hē rānei, ka kohikohi i ngā kararehe i roto i te tini, ka hanga he taiao paru me te paru. Ko ēnei kararehe, e mauheretia ana i roto i ngā āhuatanga kīkī me te paru kore, he maha ngā wā ka kore e whiwhi kai, wai, me te tiaki hauora, ka waiho rātou kia mate puhoi me te mamae.
E whakaatu ana tēnei āhuatanga pōuri i te hiahia nui mō te aroha, te mātauranga, me te mahi. E tika ana kia whakautehia, kia manaakitia, kia whai wāhi hoki ia mea ora ki te ora korekore i te whara. Ahakoa mā te tautoko i ngā ture pakari ake, mā te tautoko i ngā kaupapa whakawhānau me te whakamoe, mā te hora noa rānei i te mōhiotanga, kei a tātou katoa te mana ki te hanga rerekētanga ki te oranga o ēnei kararehe ngoikore. Mā te mahi tahi anake ka taea e tātou te tumanako ki te wawahi i tēnei huringa o te mamae, me te whakarite i tētahi heke mai kanapa mō ngā kararehe katoa.
He aha te tini o ngā kararehe kāore e hiahiatia ana, me ngā kararehe kāinga kore hoki?
Ko te āhua pouri o ngā kararehe kāinga kore he raruraru ā-ao e ahu mai ana i ngā whanonga, ngā waiaro, me ngā hinganga pūnaha o te tangata. Ahakoa te tipu haere o te mōhiotanga, kei te mau tonu te raruraru o te taupori nui o ngā kararehe nā te mea he maha tonu ngā tāngata e hoko kararehe ana mai i ngā kaiwhakatupu kararehe, i ngā toa mōkai rānei, e tautoko pōhēhē ana i ngā mira punua ngeru me ngā kurī pēpi—ngā ahumahi e whakatairanga ana i te hua i te oranga o ngā kararehe. He rongonui ēnei mira mō ō rātou āhuatanga kino, e whakaarohia ana ngā kararehe hei taonga hokohoko kaua hei mea ora. Mā te whiriwhiri ki te hoko kaua ki te whāngai, ka mau tonu te huringa o te kore kāinga mō ngā miriona kararehe e tatari ana i roto i ngā whare tiaki kararehe mō te whai wāhi ki tētahi oranga pai ake.
Ko tētahi o ngā take nui o tēnei raruraru ko te korenga o te tokomaha o ngā kaipupuri mōkai ki te whakamoe, ki te whakamoe rānei i ā rātou kararehe. Ina waihotia ngā kurī me ngā ngeru kia kaua e whakarerekētia, ka nui ā rātou uri, ka puta he whānautanga e kore e taea e ngā whare tiaki te noho. Hei tauira, ka taea e tētahi ngeru kotahi kāore anō kia whakamoea te whānau i ngā tini punua ngeru i roto i tōna oranga, ā, he maha o ēnei uri ka whānau ā rātou ake uri. Nā tēnei uritanga tere ka whakakaha ake i te raruraru taupori nui, me ngā hua kino mō ngā kararehe me ngā hapori.
I ia tau i te US anake, neke atu i te 6 miriona ngā kararehe ngaro, kua whakarērea, kua kore rānei e hiahiatia—tae atu ki ngā kurī, ngā ngeru, ngā rāpeti, tae atu ki ngā mōkai tauhou—ka kitea rātou i roto i ngā whare tiaki kararehe. Heoi anō, he maha o ēnei whare tiaki kararehe kua kikī rawa, ā, kāore i te rawaka te pūtea, e uaua ana ki te whakarato i te tiaki tika. Ahakoa ka tangohia ētahi kararehe ki ngā kāinga aroha, e miriona ana ka whakamatea nā te kore o te wāhi, ngā rauemi, te hiahia rānei o ngā kaiwhakawhiwhi kararehe pea. He rite tonu te kino o te āhuatanga i ētahi atu wāhi o te ao, kei reira ngā pūnaha whare tiaki kararehe kāore i te tino whanake, ka waiho ngā kararehe kāinga kore ki te tiaki i a rātou anō i runga i ngā tiriti.
Ahakoa te nui o te taupori o ngā kararehe me ō rātou hoa, ka tino taumaha rawa atu. Heoi, ko te whakatika i tēnei āhuatanga ka tīmata mā te whakapau kaha ki te waihanga i tētahi "iwi kāore he whānautanga." Mā te whakatairanga i ngā kaupapa whānui mō te whakawhānau me te whakamoe, ka taea e tātou te whakaiti i te maha o ngā kararehe kāore e hiahiatia e tomo mai ana ki te ao. Ehara i te mea ka ārai noa te whakawhānau me te whakamoe i te taupori nui, engari he maha hoki ngā painga hauora me ngā whanonga mō ngā mōkai, pērā i te whakaiti i te mōrearea o ētahi mate pukupuku me te whakaiti i ngā whanonga pukuriri.
Ko te mātauranga tētahi atu wāhanga nui o te whakaoti rapanga i tēnei raruraru. He maha ngā kaipupuri mōkai kāore i te mōhio ki te hiranga o te whakamate i ā rātou kararehe, ki te pānga rānei o te hoko mōkai hei utu mō te whāngai kararehe. Mā ngā kaupapa toro atu ki te hapori, ngā kaupapa kura, me ngā pānuitanga ratonga tūmatanui ka āwhina i te whakarerekē i ngā waiaro o te hapori, me te whakanui i te uara o te whāngai kararehe me te pupuri kararehe tika.
He mea nui anō hoki ngā ture kaha ake hei whawhai i ngā pūtake o te taupori nui rawa. Mā ngā ture e whakahau ana i te whakawhānau me te whakamoe, te whakahaere i ngā tikanga whakatipu uri, me te aukati i ngā mira kurī me ngā punua ngeru ka āwhina i te whakaiti i te rerenga mai o ngā kararehe kāinga kore. Hei tāpiri, me mahi tahi ngā kāwanatanga me ngā whakahaere ki te putea i ngā kaupapa whakawhānau iti te utu, kore utu rānei, me te whakarite kia kore ngā arai pūtea e aukati i ngā kaipupuri mōkai ki te mahi i tēnei mahi nui.
Hei whakamutunga, me mahi tahi te whakaoti rapanga mō te taupori nui rawa o ngā kararehe. Ka taea e te tangata takitahi te hanga rerekētanga mā te tango mai i ngā whare tiaki kararehe, te atawhai i ngā kararehe e matea ana, me te hora i te mōhiotanga mō te hiranga o te whakawhānau me te whakamoe. Mā te aroha, te mātauranga, me te whakapau kaha ki te huringa, ka taea e tātou te neke atu ki tētahi ao kei reira ngā kararehe katoa he kāinga aroha me te oranga kore mamae. Mā te mahi tahi, ka taea e tātou te wawahi i te huringa me te whakarite kia kore he kararehe e mahue ki muri.
Te nanakia e pā ana ki ngā hoa kararehe
Ahakoa e arohaina ana ētahi kararehe waimarie hei mema whānau e arohaina ana, he tini ke atu anō hoki e ora ana i te mamae e kore e taea te whakaaro, te kore aro, me te tukino. Mō ēnei kararehe, ko te kupu whakaari mō te hoa ka taupokina e ngā āhuatanga kino o te tukino me te kore aro. Ahakoa e aukatia ana ētahi momo tukino kararehe e te ture, he maha ngā mahi tukino e whakaaetia ana e te ture, e kore rānei e arohia. Nā te kore tiaki i ēnei kararehe, e noho ngoikore ana ngā miriona kararehe ki te mamae, he maha ngā wā i raro i te ringa o te hunga e tika ana kia tiaki i a rātou.
Ko tētahi o ngā momo mahi nanakia tino kitea, tino whakapouri hoki ko te here tonu i ngā kararehe. I roto i te maha o ngā rohe, kāore he ture e aukati ana i te tangata ki te here i ā rātou kurī ki ngā pou, ki ngā rākau rānei mō ngā rā, mō ngā wiki, tae noa ki ō rātou oranga katoa. Ka waiho ēnei kararehe kia pāngia e te werawera nui, te hukapapa, te ua, me te hukarere, me te kore rawa he wāhi noho. Nā te korenga o te hoa, te whakakori tinana, me te tiaki tika, he maha tonu te pāngia e te kore kai, te matewai, me te mamae nui o te ngākau. He maha tonu te piri o ō rātou mekameka ki roto i ō rātou kiri, ka puta te mamae nui me te mate pāwera, ko tō rātou noho motuhake ka arahi ki ngā whanonga neurotic, ki te kati katoa rānei i te ngākau.
Ko te haehae i te waewae mō te oranga o te tangata tētahi atu āhuatanga kino e pā ana ki te tini o ngā kararehe. I ētahi wā, ka tapahia ētahi wāhanga o ō rātou matimati, taringa, hiku rānei, he maha ngā wā kāore he rongoā whakamoe tika, he whakahaere mamae rānei. Ko ēnei tikanga, pērā i te tango hiku, te tapahi taringa rānei i roto i ngā kurī, ka mahia mō ngā take ataahua, mō ngā tikanga tawhito rānei, ka puta he mamae nui me te whara tinana me te kare ā-roto mō te wā roa. Waihoki, ka tangohia ngā niho o ētahi kararehe, he tukanga e uru ana ki te tapahi i te hononga whakamutunga o ia matimati, ka waiho i a rātou kia kore he parepare me te mamae tonu. Ahakoa te mamae koretake o ēnei tikanga, kei te mahi tonu, ā, kua noho noa i roto i te tini o ngā wāhi o te ao.
Ahakoa ngā kara hei "whakangungu" i ngā kararehe, ka taea te whakamahi hei taputapu nanakia. Hei tauira, ka tukuna e ngā kara wiri ngā wiri hiko mamae ki ngā kurī hei whiu mō ngā whanonga noa pēnei i te auau, te tūhura rānei i te taiao. Ka taea e ēnei taputapu te whakararu i te wehi, te manukanuka, me te whara hinengaro, ka ako i ngā kararehe ki te hono i ngā mahi o ia rā ki te mamae, kaua ki te ārahi. I ngā wā tino kino, ka taea e ngā kara wiri te hē te mahi, te whakamahi nui rānei, ka puta he wera, he whara tuturu rānei.
Haunga ēnei tukinotanga tika, he momo nanakia, he whānui hoki te kore aro ki te kararehe. He maha ngā mōkai e waiho mokemoke ana mō ngā wā roa, e herea ana ki roto i ngā whare herehere iti, ki ngā rūma rānei, me te kore kai, wai, whakaohooho rānei e tika ana. I roto i te wā, ka pāngia ēnei kararehe e ngā raruraru hauora kino, tae atu ki te momona, te ngoikore o ngā uaua, me ngā mate whanonga. He rite tonu te kino o te kore aro ki te kare ā-roto, nā te mea he tangata pāpori ngā kararehe e hiahia ana ki te aroha, ki te taunekeneke, me te wairua haumaru.
Ko te korenga o ngā parenga ture whānui e whakanui ake ana i ēnei take. Ahakoa kua anga whakamua ētahi mana whakahaere ki te whakapai ake i ngā ture oranga kararehe, he maha tonu ngā wāhi kāore e whakaae ana ki ngā kararehe he mea ora e tika ana kia whiwhi tika. Engari, he maha tonu te whakaaro he taonga rātou, ā, he uaua ki te whai kawenga mō ngā kaitukino. He maha ngā wā kāore i te tino whakangungua, kāore rānei i te tino putea ngā tari whakahaere ture, ā, ka hua ake te koretake o te whakatinanatanga o ngā ture tukino kararehe o nāianei.
Kāore te tukino e mutu i te tukino tinana me te kore aro; ka horapa ki ngā ahumahi me ngā mahi e whakamahi ana i ngā kararehe hei whiwhi moni. Hei tauira, ko ngā mira kurī, e whakatipu tonu ana i ngā kararehe i roto i ngā āhuatanga paru, kīkī rawa, e whakatairanga ana i te nui i te kounga o te oranga. He maha ngā tau e mamae ana ēnei kararehe, e whakaputa ana i ngā para, tae noa ki te kore e whai hua, ā, ka makahia. Waihoki, ko ngā mōkai tauhou pērā i ngā manu, ngā ngārara, me ngā ika ka hokona ki ngā rangatira kāore i rite te āhua, kāore i te mōhio, i ngā rauemi rānei hei tiaki tika i a rātou, ka arahi ki te kore aro me te mate wawe.
Ko te whakatika i tēnei mahi nanakia me whai huringa pūnaha me te kawenga takitahi. He mea nui ngā ture kaha ake kia tiakina ai ngā kararehe katoa, ā, me whakatinana he whiu kaha ake hei aukati i te tukino. Ka taea e ngā kaupapa whakaakoranga tūmatanui te āwhina i te whakapiki i te mōhiotanga mō te tiaki tika i ngā kararehe, me te aukati i ngā mahi kino pēnei i te tango hiku, te tapahi taringa, te whakamahi rānei i ngā kara wiri.
I te taumata whaiaro, ka taea e te aroha te hanga i tētahi rerekētanga nui. Mā te tango kararehe mai i ngā whare tiaki kararehe, kaua ki te hoko mai i ngā kaiwhakatupu kararehe, i ngā toa mōkai rānei, ka taea e ngā tāngata takitahi te āwhina ki te whawhai i te huringa o te tukino me te kore aro. Ko te tautoko i ngā whakahaere e whakaora ana, e whakaora ana hoki i ngā kararehe kua tukinotia, te mahi tūao ki ngā whare tiaki kararehe, me te ripoata i ngā take whakapae mō te tukino he huarahi katoa ki te waihanga i tētahi ao haumaru ake, atawhai ake hoki mō ngā hoa kararehe.
Ka whakarei ake ngā kararehe i ō tātou oranga mā tō rātou pono, aroha, me te whakahoahoa. Hei utu, e tika ana kia atawhaihia rātou me te whakaute, te manaaki, me te atawhai. Ka taea e tātou te mahi tahi ki te whakamutu i te mamae e pā ana ki a rātou, me te whakarite kia whai wāhi ia hoa kararehe ki te oranga e ki ana i te harikoa me te aroha.
Ka taea e koe te āwhina i ngā ngeru, ngā kurī, me ētahi atu hoa kararehe i tēnei rā
Ehara ngā kurī, ngā ngeru, me ētahi atu kararehe whai whakaaro i te taonga, i te taonga rānei—he tāngata takitahi rātou he kare ā-roto, he matea, he āhua motuhake hoki. Ko te mōhio ki ō rātou uara tūturu ko te whakaaro anō ki te āhua o tā tātou taunekeneke me te manaaki i a rātou. Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi tino whai mana ki te whakahonore i ō rātou uara ko te kore e tautoko i ngā ahumahi e whakamahi ana i ngā kararehe hei taonga hokohoko. Ko te tikanga kaua rawa e hoko kararehe mai i ngā toa mōkai, i ngā paetukutuku, i ngā kaiwhakatupu kararehe rānei, nā te mea ka puta he huringa o te tukino me te taupori nui.
